Dear Friend,
The two past editions focused on four groups of people on planet earth and why you must not identify yourself with Watchers, which is the last group.
This is the final edition and I’m going to briefly highlight below what you must do to get rid of Watchers in your life (that is if you have any).
1) Stop COMPLAINING, go into ACTION! It is like you are supposed to get a project done and when you embark on it, you get tired and decide to stop, and pushing it aside for a while. This is what Watchers do!
I bet you don’t expect any result from any abandon project, do you? What you don’t work for can never be meaningful to you. If you want to get to a stage in your life that you can boldly say; ‘I have arrived’, then you must put on the shoes of perseverance, of patience, of hardworking, and to stay optimistic.
2) Get yourself focused. I remember I told you that Watchers are just lazy and busy-bodies to have time for productivity in their lives. This is where you must be different. Focus on what will profits you and your future. If a Watcher comes to you complaining about how another friend of yours tends to make it more than him, please, tell him off. You don’t have to do this with anger but be wise to avoid getting involved.
3) Be Optimistic. When the Watchers around you are cursing rich people that you knew or not, do not join them. You will do yourself more harms when you involve in topics like that. Instead, appreciate the rich and then the Universe will favour you too.
You don’t or cannot see anyone in the Achievers’ group wasting his or her time over unprofitable topics. They don’t have time, believe me. Achievers love their works with all their lives because they knew how important successes mean to them.
4) Gone and gone were those days when you will need the help of the entire church members to come and settle the dispute between you and your spouse or your children. STOP reporting to outsiders what goes on in YOUR HOME! If you have a problem, go to God in prayer. Nothing is too big that God is too small to handle. Talking out bring even bigger problems that you may never be able to solve. Everybody has the ability to misinterpret what you tell them. All you need it God’s wisdom and of course self-control. You have that God-given ability inside of you to settle troubles in your home. Watchers will only be happy to help you further destroy the joy you long for in your home.
5) Distinguish yourself. To be at that level where your world will be looking at you upward and with awe, then you must be different. Change your pattern of speech. Change your way of dressing; do not fall into the habit of dressing as if you are always in mourning or in poverty. No matter how hard the economy is right now, that does not mean that life is bad after all. Be clean at every second of the days even at night. You won’t attract goodness to you if you are shabby.
6) Be positive and kind in your words to your spouse, to your kids, to your family members, to your friends, to your neighbours, and above all, to strangers. Who knows where your successes will be deliver to you. Get into the habit of loving people genuinely. I met lots of people in my trips and I try to keep record of the numerous emails I got from them so that I can mail at least twice a month. They are wonderful people! And they have been God’s disguised blessings to me in many ways.
7) Finally, I want you to fall in love with MONEY! Do not laugh because this is serious. STOP squeezing money bill into your purse, bag or pocket. Ensure you stretch it neat before you put it into your purse. Be kind with money and it will be kind to you. Respect money and it will respect you and come to you. If you treat each bill of money in your hand anyhow, it will flee from you. DO NOT finish or spend the entire money you have in your purse or wallet. Leave at least a currency bill………soon I will explain this fully in another topic.
Cheers!
Princess Ayelotan
www.princessayelotan.com
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TASTE OF HUNGER
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SHADOW OF THE SUN
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