Being able to accept others into our lives does not require so much from us. There are some of us who think its not possible most times dealing with people. Sure, I knew some people are difficult but I would like to announce to you that this is very EASY.
What you need to understand are those invaluable differences in us as human. Let’s take for instance; when you have two or more cats as pet. They may even be dogs. You will found out as you all live together that these pets are different in their behaviours and you just have to adapt to them differently.
The same applies to how you deal or interact with fellow being.
That you are smart, quick-swift and hyperactive does not means your friend, your parents, your siblings, your colleague or your employee, or your spouse or your kids will be just like you. Some people are slow in executing their duties. In fact, some are extremely slow.
There are others who are sluggish, while there are those prefer to take things easy; you don’t push them and they will work at their own pace. Apart from these set of people, there are those ones with high capacity of getting their jobs done within seconds.
Despite, we all are humans. We have the obligation to accept others as they are. How will this world be if the entire human races are gifted with the same characters, attitudes and other ways of doing things? The beauties of our being are our God-given differences.
Learn to tolerate. Are you an employer and you are having difficulties getting your employees doing their jobs as you desire?
Be reasonable as you apply gentleness but firm approach to instruct them.
Are you a parent; frustrated with your kids’ behaviour?
Check out their own point of view, their weak points and with complete calmness, speak to them.
Do you feel your spouse is becoming a pain in the ass though there is no such as violence or abuses between you?
Look out for convenient moment when there is serenity to discuss and solve the problem
Do not buy the idea that someone is too difficult to handle. If you master tolerance, definitely you will find it easy and smooth dealing with others.
So are you going to embrace tolerance today?
Cheers!
Princess Ayelotan
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TASTE OF HUNGER
SHADOW OF THE SUN
Dear Friend,
He is neither human nor robot
She lowers her head,
